My story
How I became a doula
Before birth work, I ran an independent café in Brighton for six years. I loved creating a warm, welcoming space — the kind where people feel seen and looked after. After having children, the relentless hours became unsustainable, but I didn’t realise how much that chapter would shape the way I support families now.
Running a business taught me how to communicate clearly, manage bookings, and keep things calm and organised behind the scenes. More importantly, it showed me that people aren’t only looking for a service — they’re looking for an experience: reassurance, steadiness, and someone who can hold the details when life feels big.
My first birth was in hospital. It was fine, but it felt quite medicalised — and I remember feeling a bit lost in the system. When I became pregnant again, I planned a home birth. That experience was transformative. I had a doula with me, and everything I’d read about physiological birth, trusting your body, and the power of the right environment — I experienced it all firsthand.
Afterwards, I couldn’t shake the thought: I want to do this. I wanted other women to feel that prepared, that supported, that powerful. I trained with Developing Doulas in 2016 and I’ve never looked back.
Since then, I’ve supported over 100 families across Brighton, Hove, Lewes, Worthing, Shoreham and the wider East Sussex area. I keep learning because birth work evolves — and I want you to benefit from the most current, evidence-based support.